Upgrade U

I really like this song by Beyonce -- Upgrade U. I particulary like the following part of the song:

It's very seldom that you're blessed to find your equal
Still play my part and let you take the lead role
Believe me
I'll follow this could be easy
I'll be the help whenever you need me
I see you hustle with my hustle
I can keep you
focused on your focus, I can feed you

All that materialistic stuff in the rest of the song doesn't matter to me. This is what I think is important for a woman like myself. I don't believe that it is my place in the relationship to stand in the front, I think its my role to support. It's not a matter of submission or domination by the man over the woman in a traditional sense. The Bible states, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior."(Ephesians 5:21-23 NIV) The man is supposed to be the head - plain and simple. Behind that man is a great woman. I know that I am meant to be that great woman for some great man.

I'm not looking for him anymore, I've given that mission to God and He has shown me that man for me. It is now up to God and that man to find me. I have to continue to take care of myself and my boys, continue to study His word, continue to praise Him for all that he has done and all that He will do in my life.

I know that I'll be a fantastic wife to this man, and I also know that he will be a fantastic husband to me. This man will be a covering for me and our family. I know that it will be the type of marriage that we deserve and that we will be good to each other. God truly is good!! He asks us to believe in Him and He will show us the way.

I believe in Him and I know that all things are possible because of Him. I am not a perfect person and I know that He has forgiven me for my sins.

Praise Him, Believe Him, and Trust in Him!!

Vintage Me >.<